Space for Doubt
Why “I’m not sure” might be the most powerful phrase in business today.
This week, I celebrated another birthday.
Another lap around the sun.
And like every milestone, it brought with it that bittersweet blend of inspiration and unease.
Time bends. Priorities shift. The questions deepen.
But one phrase kept rising to the surface: space for doubt.
Not as a flaw.
But as a gift.
The Most Honest Thing I Ever Learned
In my early 20s and 30s, I learned to say something that changed everything:
“I’m not sure.”
Not because I lacked conviction. But because I was paying attention.
Because being unsure didn’t mean I was unqualified—it meant I was open. Curious. Still learning.
And in hindsight, that single phrase was the quiet foundation for everything else.
It made me a better creative.
A better leader.
A better collaborator.
Because “I’m not sure” is permission.
To test. To play. To question.
To let go of the need to be right and step into the work of becoming real.
Seasons of Change, Globes Apart
Right now, it’s September.
In Australia—where I’m from—it’s spring, September 1st (my birthday), rain hail or shine, it’s spring.
In the rest of the hemispheres I’ve spent time in recently, it’s autumn.
Bloom or shed. Start or stop. Go inward or go wild.
Either way, it’s a time of reset.
The true beginning of the creative year for many.
A season of reassessment—not just of what we do, but of how we feel about what we do.
And in that reassessment, I’ve found that doubt isn’t a distraction.
It’s a signal.
That we’re paying attention to something important.
Branding in a Time of “Not Sure”
In brand-building, this is everything.
We’ve long been taught to show up bold, certain, and airtight.
But the digital age—messy, real-time, and brutally honest—rewards experimentation.
Today, successful brands don't pretend to know everything.
They admit when they’re learning.
They invite the audience into the process.
They fast-fail in public, iterate in the comments, and sometimes even become memes along the way.
And guess what? That’s not a bad thing.
The internet has a short memory.
But people have long memories for brands that show up with humility.
With humor.
With honesty.
To say “we’re not sure yet, but we’re exploring” is to build in public—not just code, but credibility.
Behind the Filters and Feeds
Depending on what platform you’re on, your feed may be filled with perfect avatars, smiling faces, and synthetic selves.
But behind those polished pixels are people doing the real work—creative, emotional, spiritual.
Work that doesn’t always fit the feed.
Work that needs… space.
And let’s be real: perfection is boring.
Polish is forgettable.
Doubt is where the juice is. It’s where we fumble forward. It’s where we grow.
Organized Chaos & Creative Clarity
When I was younger, someone told me:
“Cluttered desk, cluttered mind.”
But over time, I realized: that’s not always true.
As a multimedia creative, I’ve learned to write in chaos.
To find peace in the hum.
To make clarity inside mess.
Some of my most resonant ideas emerged from the swirl—not in spite of it, but because of it.
So maybe the goal isn’t a tidy desk, or a tidy brand, or a tidy version of ourselves.
Maybe the goal is to make space.
For contradiction. For confusion. For curiosity.
For doubt.
At the Crossroads
If you’re reading this and feel like you’re in-between—
Between roles, between selves, between the known and the imagined—
Don’t panic.
Don’t rush to close the gap.
Sit in it for a while.
Doubt is where transformation happens.
It’s not a delay—it’s the door.
It’s not weakness—it’s wisdom.
So give yourself space for doubt.
Because in a world obsessed with certainty, the most powerful words you can say might just be:
“I’m not sure.”
September 9, 2025
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